Pre-deployment relationship (sorry this is long)?

Your husband's focus has shifted from his life here to the upcoming deployment. He's mad because he doesn't know how to handle your emotional breakdown, plus he's trying to keep his s*** together. Being a military spouse isnt' easy, but what you are supposed to do is pull your act together, put on a happy face and suck it up. No, its not fair, and its not fun. I've done it, I know. If he is so worried about you and focused on your mental well being, he's not going to be focused on the mission. Remember, he's the one going far away from home and leaving everything behind. You need to seek some counseling, get on meds if you need to and find things to do that don't involve your husband. While he's gone, go back to school, get a job, volunteer, make some friends with other women in the same situation. Those friendships can be what saves you some days. Spend these last few days hugging your husband and telling him how much you love him. Don't bring up anything else and smile even if it kills you. Good luck honey.