Announcing a wedding a few days after your brothers?

If there is one thing I have learnt it is to be supportive of my hubby when faced with a family like this, I do not comment on his family, am supportive if he wants to visit, when he wants to rant and rave I sit and listen. As I have often thought it is bad enough when he has to listen to the whining and bitching and definitely doesn't need to listen to mine about them as well. I think you guys did the right thing and be glad you married him and not his idiot brother.